1. Celebrate their hair: It is important that we let children know that their hair is beautiful and special. Teach them to appreciate the texture, volume, and unique shape of their curly or afro hair. Celebrate the beauty in all forms, including their hair.
 
2. Teach them about their hair: Teach kids about their curly and afro hair, including how to care for it and what products are best to use. Explain to them why their hair is different from their friends or classmates, and teach them to value those differences.
 
3. Don't make them feel different: Children with curly hair or afro hair can often feel different or left out in social situations. Try not to make comments that might make them feel uncomfortable or embarrassed about their hair. Instead, make sure they feel included and valued.
 
4. Make hair care fun: Children love to play, so making hair care a fun and engaging activity can help them enjoy the experience. Try different hairstyles and let the kids be involved in the process.
 
5. Model a love for your own hair: Children learn by watching adults, so make sure you model love and care for your own hair, regardless of its texture or type. If children see you taking care of and loving your hair, they are more likely to do so too.

Teaching children to love their curly and afro hair is an ongoing process and requires love, patience and dedication.